Got Milk ? Got 'tude ! Real Attitude Say What ?
by: tophatal
A Rite Of Passage And Hopefully A Journey Of Redemption ........
Apr 17, 2008 | 12:09PM | report this

Of   late  I've    become    very    disillusioned   not   primarily    with life   but    at  certain  things  that  are   happening.     Baseball's   season   has   opened    with  great     furore  and  already   the  Yankees  and   Sox  are   it.        The  NBA    postseason    starts  on  Sunday    with the  first   round  of  the  playoff  and   the    game's    fans   are  definately     in    for  a    treat.   

Florida Marlins shortstop Hanley Ramirez (2) jumps over Atlanta Braves' Matt Diaz (23) after forcing out Diaz on the first half of a double play in the eighth inning of a baseball game Wednesday, April 16, 2008, in Miami. Mark Kotsay was out at first. The Marlins won 6-5.

Marlins'  SS   Hanly  Ramirez   makes  a  play   jumping   over the  Braves' Matt  Diaz.   Diaz    was  called  out    in  a  game    which    the Marlins   won  6-5   to  stay   atop  of  the  NL  East  with  a  9-5  record.   Something  of  a  suprise   to  many  at this   juncture.     picture  courtesy of   ap/photo/J. Pat  Carter  ..............

And  that   the  machination    that  is    the  NFL     is    in   full   swing    with   their   own  showcase   ................NFL   Draft   Day     just  around  the  corner.     All  of  which  os   very   important  to   the   fans  of  their    respective   teams.    We'll  see   how   adept   the   coaches,   GM's  and    their    coaching   staff  apparently     are.    It's   said that   the  Miami   Dolphins  are    in   talks      with   their    prospective    first   round   pick..........in this    case  the  overall   # 1  pick    Chris    Long.    Just  wondering   the  selling    points of  that   particular   conversation  ? 

Edward Roski, the developer behind the Staples Center and part owner of the Los Angeles Kings and Los Angeles Lakers announces the plan to build a state of the art National Football League (NFL) Stadium for Los Angeles at a news conference at Staples Center Thursday, April 17, 2008.  The  Ed  Roski    a  property  developer  and  part  owner   of  the  Los Angeles Lakers  and  Kings   unveils  an  architect's   drawing   for   the   proposed    NLF  stadium   to   built  in   the  city  of Industry ,Ca.  It'd  appear  that   by  hook   or   crook    that   the  city  of   Los  Angeles    will  have   an   NFL   team    foisted   upon  them    whether  they  like  it or  not.  picture  courtesy of  ap/photo/ Damian  Dovarganes  ................ 

Not  to  be  left    out   but    the  NHL   playoffs  have    already   started.   Is  anyone   really    overawed   and   particularly   that  interested   until  the   conference   finals   start  ?.  If the Red  Wings,    Penguins  or   Capitols   aren't    involved .     I  doubt   that the    interest'll  be  there    for   it   let   alone   the   Stanley  Cup  Finals   themselves.  

Detroit Red Wings players celebrate a goal against Nashville Predators goalie Dan Ellis (39) in the third period of a first-round NHL hockey playoff game in Nashville, Tenn., Wednesday, April 16, 2008.  The Predators won 3-2 to even the series at two games each. From left are Pavel Datsyuk, Brian Rafalski, Niklas Kronwall, Tomas Holmstrom and dan Ellis.

 Red  Wings'  players   celebrate  a   goal   scored   against  the  Nashville  Predators   during   their    playoff   game.  The  game   won   by  the Predators   3-2   levelled    the  series  at    2-2  apiece  of  the  7  game  playoff   series.   In    picture are   Predators'   goaltender  Dan  Ellis  and     Wings'  players  Pavel  Datsyuk,  Brian Rafalksi,  Niklas  Kronwall  and Tomas  Holstrom.    picture   courtesy of   ap/photo/ Mark  Humphrey  ..........

For   myself    this'll  be   somewhat  of  a     respite    away   from   sports   as  such   over  the   next  few    days.   Although   my  laptop   will   be  in  tow   as  I  embark    on    trip   to   Washington   D.C.    I  don't   know   that I'll    get   much    time   to  post a  topic  but  I'll   try.    Several   of  my   buddies   and  I   will   be   riding    up   to  the  nation's   capitol   to   see     some   of   the   varied   and   storied   landmarks.    Something    that  in  the    years   I've   resided    in   this   country    I've    never   done.   It'd  be  remiss  of  me   not    to    explain  why.   Having    lost   several   friends   over  the   last   few    months     in    Aghanistan  and   Iraq  collectively ,    I    thought   it   only  appropriate  that  I  honor    them     in   such   a  way   by     embarking   on   this     journey.    Having    not   ridden  a  bike   in  some   5  years    this'll    be  something   anew    for  me.  Here   in  Central   Florida    it's    not   exactly   seen  as  the  sane  thing   to   do    considering    not  only  the  congestion   on the    roads    but  the  apparent  lack  of   respect   for   motorcyclists    by    the    drivers   in  general.

Lincoln  Memorial    in Washignton  DC

Lincoln  Memorial  in   Washington  D.C.   A   surreal   place    with  a   wonderous  view   and   steeped  in   history.     picture  courtesy  images.google.com/washingtondc  .....

As  to  what  to  expect   from  this   journey    I can  only    hope  it'll   equate   with   something     positive    for  my  friends   and   I.  Over  the last   few   years     it's    been    one   of   highs   and    lows    worrying   over   the   safety   of   my    tounger  brother   as  he's   serving     in    the  wiles   of    Iraq     with the   British   military.   His   safety  and  those   of  friends   there   that  are   serving   are     the    utmost   in   my  mind.    Having   lost   several  of them   since    the  start  of  this    exercise   has  left   me   exacerbated   and   angry  .  The   sacrifices     thus   far   have    been   monumental   for the  families that've   lost     loved    ones.    And   at  the   same   time      the   political  gristle    that    has  been    gleaned    from  this   serves   the   political   machinations   of    the   Presidential   candidates   on  the  stump.   

Washington  Monument   in DC

Washington  Monument    in   DC    and  a  place  of  serene   beauty.     picture   courtesy  of  images.google.com/washingtonmonument........ 

For   the   days   that    I'll  be  within  the   city    touring  its    historic  sites   I'll   take  time  to   reinvigorate  my    fervour  for   the  country    I   now  call    my   home.   Fifteen years   after    my  arrival    little   did  I   envisage   that  I'd   be   spending   what'll  amount  to  be  the rest  of   my adult   life  here.    Having   made     new    friends    and   alliances     that I've    come   to    value  and  immsersing   myself      the  country's    history  and   mindset.   I can   now  say    that  I've   finally   arrived   at  a   point   in    my    life    where   I'm     happy. Though  there   are    several   things   that've   not    met    my  satisfaction  I  see  it  only   as   something   minor   than    being    of  paramount    urgency.  

The  Vietnam  Memorial   in  Washington  DC

The  Vietman  Memorial    a  chilling   place     where  somehow   my   emotions   may well   get the  better  of  me.  picture   courtesy of   images.google.com/vietnammemorial......

Whatever   I  find   from  this  journey  as  I embark    upon   it   with my    friends  .  I   hope that  it  ends    up    serving    me     in   a  positive way.   And   though   there'll  be   much  to  see  and   do.   Knowing  that  I'll   have   been   there     will   be   more  than   enough   to     give    me     the  solace   I   seek   and    a   feeling of     well   being.   In  my   military service  with  the  British   military  I'd   been  some   far   flung    places  and  at   the  same   I'd    travelled   much    in   my    youth.    Having   done  it   gave  me   a  greater    feel  and  appreciation    for   the  ways    of   the    world  and   the    culture   therein.    I   appreciated  it   much  as  I've   come  to   appreciate  what's   been   placed   within   my   domain. 

Capitol  Building  in   Washington  DC      

The  Capitol   Building   in  Washington   where the   nation   conducts  much of  its    business.    picture courtesy  of   images.google.com/capitolbuilding/......

Holocaust  Museum

Part  of  an   exhibit at  the  Holocaust  Museum   in  DC.  It's   of  train  carriage  car  that  was  used  to   transport   prisoners off  to  the    gas   chamber.  In  this  case there  were  also   several   carriages   that were    modified    for that  very    purpose.  picture  courtesy of images.googl.com/holocaust  museum/washingtondc......

Incinerated   bodies and   their  remnants........

A  rendition   as to  what  an  apparent   aftermath   of  the  remnants of   the   incinerated   bodies   looked  like.    picture   courtesy  of      images.google.com/holocaust  museum/washingtondc.......

This  is   a  journey      that  I    know   will  have  some  meaning   and    be a  fulfillment  of  an ambition    to   see   the  nation's   capitol ,  its   citizens   and     become   a  part   of  that   thriving     entity  that  is   known   as  America.    Many    come  to   this   nation     that's    deemed a   land  of  opportunity   but    foresake    what  it  has to   offer.  I'll  accept  it  gladly   knowing   that   it   gives  me    hope   for   the  future.     I've   emblazoned    myself    in  its  culture  and   to an  extent   many  of  its  ways   but  at the   same   I  still   remember   from  whence  I   came.

tophatal ................

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gcoach
Apr 17, 2008
2:10 PM
top - My best on your journey. I hope that what you find enriches the hope you have for your future while pulling up thoughts and memories of your past. My best to your brother and your friends and hopes that you will see them again soon. Sports takes a backseat to the world sometimes...and there isn't anything wrong with that. Have fun.

tophatal
Apr 17, 2008
2:16 PM
gcoach
That'll be one of my intentions to an extent. The girlfriend couldn't understand when I told her that I needed to do this just for myself and my own piece of mind . It's something that I for one hope'll bring about a change for the better.
Thanks for the props bro !

tophatal .......


Last edited by tophatal on April 17th at 2:17 PM.

photogr
Apr 17, 2008
6:57 PM
A lot of history of America is in D.C. and can be enlightening. Just stay out of down town. Have a lot of bad memories of that area.

tophatal
Apr 18, 2008
1:29 AM
photogr
I've been told that there are parts of DC that'd make Baghdad seem angelic. As it is I don't envisage that we'll be visiting those parts at all. For me this'll be a sojourn and rite of passage rolled into one. My buddies have all been there before but for this'll be my first time.
Looking forward to it and at the same time I just want to take in what it is that the city has to offer.

tophatal ......

oldskewler
Apr 18, 2008
9:14 AM
DC is a beautiful place this time of year. The memorials and monuments are spectacular sights. I am sure that you will find it a good experience.

As with any big city, there are always places you don't want to be at certain times. I didn't feel any less safe in DC than I felt in Chicago, St. Louis, or LA.

tophatal
Apr 18, 2008
10:38 AM
oldskewler
I'm just hoping to take it all in . With the vast array of history that the city has to offer. It's been something that I'd wanted to do from the very first time I came to this counry on a visit some 20 years ago. At the time I was touring the West Coast .. L.A. , San Francisco , San Diego, Tucson, Az,Phoenix and Scottsdale . Living here in C Florida I wasn't fully appreciative of the city itself. It's been all about Miami, South Beach, Ft Lauderdale and Orlando within the state. I'll probably hit the Big Apple later on in the year dependent on my work shchedule.
Chimin' out.

tophatal ........

StevoinHTown
Apr 19, 2008
1:17 PM
A lot of us that were born here should have the same zeal and curiosity as you do to explore this country's heritage...Kudos toya..

tophatal
Apr 20, 2008
3:43 AM
SteveoinHTown
For me it was more than the zeal that I wanted to do this.
It's something I've wanted to do for a long time.
Several of my buddies who are now professionals also served in the military like myself. Though my service was with the British military. I'd served in Ireland during the early eighties when much of the troubles there were really heightened.
Something not unlike what the US and British military forces are now facing in Iraq and Afghanistan .
I'd like to think that there'll be a respite to all of this.



tophatal .........

NiqueDodson
Apr 23, 2008
8:43 AM
I understand why you need to do this. I haven't been yet but I need to go and will one day. Tell us all about it when you get back and looking forward to many many photos.

YeeMum_
Apr 23, 2008
9:46 AM
I'm sure you are having a blast!
I look forward to pictures as well.

Even some of the , shall we say less savory adventure stories?

(grin)

tophatal
Apr 23, 2008
10:09 AM
Yee Mum
It'd be remiss of not to have pictures but infact I don't. That was the last thing on my mind and even though I'm still here I haven't even taken time to purchase a disposable camera. I'm just relishing seeing all of the sites and the historical features of the city. However over the weekend there was a Neo Na8zi rally that took place here in Washington D.C. Something I never thought possible would've taken place in this day and age. Between 1500 to 3000 of 'em took part in this rally and there thousands who also turned to voice their disapproval. With the Pope in the city as well I'm surprised that it didn't get more national coverage by the press.
But as they say this part and parcel of what makes this country great. It's being the chance for "freedom of expression" no matter how heinous it might be.
We'll be riding round on our Harley's or in my case a Suzuki 500 cc. I'm the only one amongs the seven of us who doesn't own a bike outright. So I had to make do with a rental.
I'll be off to visit both the Vietnam Memorial for a second time and then go to the Holocaust Museum. Both places'll no doubt send a shiver down my spine.





tophatal ..........


Last edited by tophatal on April 23rd at 10:11 AM.

tophatal
Apr 23, 2008
10:34 AM
'Nique
My buddies and I did this not so much on a whim but just as a way of honoring friends we'd lost in the current and past conflicts. They're all vets of the US military. Whereas I served in the British military. My own view of military action was the four years spent in Ireland during the troubkles there of the early eighties. I lost comrades there as well as in the current conflict in Iraq. My younger brother is there noe serving too.
He's in the southern part of the country just outside the city of Basra.
War is hell espectially those who've been a part of the conflict and have seen the loss of lives. And irreparable damage that it does on all sides.
It's not something that ought to be taken lightly.
As to the pictures I won't be taking any as I see it as something of a private and personal fulfillment in honoring thoise guys
.




tophatal ....

YeeMum_
Apr 24, 2008
1:13 PM
Like I have said before (usually when we didn't remember the camera)

The pictures you take with your minds eye are more dimensional than any other camera's work.
You can place the words in anothers mind to share the scene.

have fun!

tophatal
Apr 24, 2008
7:03 PM
Yee Mum
I think this is something that we've all gone through at one time or another. In the end it ought to make us a better person overall.
Hopefully this'll be a fulfilling endeavor for all of us ?


tophatal ..........

tophatal
Apr 24, 2008
7:03 PM
Yee Mum
I think this is something that we've all gone through at one time or another. In the end it ought to make us a better person overall.
Hopefully this'll be a fulfilling endeavor for all of us ?


tophatal ..........

edclinch
Apr 25, 2008
12:31 PM
I hope you enjoy it. It has become home for me.

My Guard Unit is just down the way...

It is home. I live out in Loudoun County, Northern VA.

rampantfanatic
Apr 25, 2008
2:29 PM
edclinch
My boys and I are heading back south tonight as we'll be riding down back to Florida. Thus far it's been a real gratifying experience and totally fulfilling for us all. The one place where we all got emotional was at the Vietnam Memorial. The tranquilityand the solace that the place brings is totally unnerving.
It was something for me that I needed to do personally. It's brought me a great deal of satisfaction along the way.
Hopefully I'm a better person for it !
Chimin' out.


rampant aka tophatal ...........

blue@orange
Apr 25, 2008
2:47 PM
Al; Teddy Roosevelt once said something to the effect , that all immigrants will be welcomed if they, learn English, and try to asimilate or aclomate themselves to our way of life. With your love of this country, it's sports and fine ladies, and your command of the English language, I think Teddy would have made you example #1. Great post, one of your best, hope your trip is both enjoyable and educational. your friend B@O.

blue@orange
Apr 25, 2008
2:58 PM
You know what? I'm not done yet. I see immigrants day after day after day that don't, speek the language, dont want to, show any interest in be'ing here but for the dollars, don't care about taking part in this melting pot experiment, who are just a drain on our society, and then i see your posts, i remember the one at Thankgiving. this one, like that one, is a breath of fresh air. You got it wright, you got my respect...

edclinch
Apr 25, 2008
3:27 PM
There have always been reticent foreigners here in America.

Most of the Latinos I know give a lot back to our nation in labor and spirit. Would would we be as strong as we are without them? Are they a "drag"?

Some don't always learn the language but they contribute to our economy and society all the same.After all, how do we afford things?

rampantfanatic
Apr 26, 2008
12:49 AM
blue@orange
edclinch
Yee Mum
This country affords people a lot of things. But what I've found is that there are some who expect a great deal more from it than they're willing to give back in return. For me this is more about a journey of awakening and to honor lost friends. That being said it's not perfect but it's the best that we've got . It can only get better if we strive collectively to make ikt so . Instead of pulling in opposit directions. In effect that's what the political parties are doing. In doing so it's creating a nation of the have's and have not's.
And sadly we're no better off for it.
Our political leaders only allude to telling us things that they think'll make us feel good rather than the truth and cold hard facts.
This country is made up of a broad diaspora of people but it yet it's now become divided along racial and socio economic lines to the detriment of every citizen and inhabitant here. And that is a god given fact without a doubt.


rampant' aka tophatal .......

sportsfanviewfromthecouch
Jun 30, 2008
10:29 PM
Tophatal,

Greetings. My condolences.

I hope that you are able to find serenity in D.C.
=======

Warm regards,

justanotherfan
Jul 1, 2008
9:03 AM
sportsfanviewfromthecouch
The solace and solemnity felt was worthwhile in making the trip. It added a new perspective to my life and that of my friends who accompanied me on the trip.
We each found something in our own way and hopefully we'll be able to use it to make not only our own lives better . But those around us too in way or another.



justan' aka tophatal ............

MCLioness
Jul 1, 2008
8:49 PM
Top,

This is lovely, all of it... from your intro to the comments. And most importantly for the pilgrimage you took. Sorry for your losses, but I am glad for your sustaining state of happiness. Thank you for sharing!

justanotherfan
Jul 2, 2008
9:18 AM
MCLioness
Thanks for the words of encouragement . And indeed the trip was well worth it for my friends and I.
Once having returned I took some time to reassess some of the positive and negative things that were going on in my life.

I resumed my studies and attained my MBA and things have taken something of a positive step in various aspects of my life.
As of now all posts contributed within this forum are now written under the justanotherfan guise.
So look now for the tomes under that particular guise.


justan' aka tophatal ...........

MCLioness
Jul 2, 2008
12:39 PM
Great that you had the instincts to give yourself time to reflect and you had a supportive crew around you.

Your illustrations reminds me that I did enjoy the Stanley Cup matchup -- and result -- however, I think this run of Marat tops everything this year!

I'll go check in on your other blog...

underage
Jul 4, 2008
9:44 AM
It's Fourth of July We hope this brings on the cheerful times of Red, White and Blue from us to you!!!

Love always,
underage

edclinch
Aug 2, 2008
7:25 PM
How about the Olympics!

photogr
Aug 2, 2008
8:15 PM
Top:

I hope you find what you are looking for.

The_Sports_Intellectual
Aug 17, 2008
6:43 PM
tophat, had to check in and get your take on Usain Bolt's performance in the 100m. In light of his record-breaking "jog", do you still think Michael Johnson's 200m WR is safe? (we had a discussion about it once)

I say if he gets his head right and runs through the line, the record can be his. What say you?

As one of the only people with whom I can talk track n' field around here, I'm interested to hear your thoughts...

P.S. hope your journey treats you well. See all the sites and stay out of trouble.

justanotherfan
Aug 22, 2008
5:32 PM
edclinch
The Olympics so far has been simply amazing.
And it can be said the exploits of Bolt and Phelps have been exceptional.

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photogr
I found that and a whole lot more . I'm now in London with family , friends as well as some of my army buddies.
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The Sports Intellectual
These games have been exceptional and it can be said that the exploits of both Bolt and Phelps have left us all craving for more.
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Born in the UK of Caribbean parentage and having lived in the US for the last 15 years. A keen martial artist (Black Belt 2nd degree in karate. I also practice savate , tae - kwondo ) College Grad BA's in Econ and Int' Fin. Served five years in the British military. I've gotten use to the American way of life and the language. The women on the other hand, that's something else ! Sports is my great passion along with music and the movies. However I feel that having resided here for all this time , I still somewhat miss the land of my birth. That being said I 'love this great country and all that it has afforded me' An avid Pats and Spurs' fan. Soccer Chelsea , tophatal.....
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