Drum Beater
by: rivjo
Blogging Truths
Feb 09, 2007 | 6:23AM | report this

No matter how feel good the story, somebody will rain on the parade.

“Keeping It Real” is alive and well everywhere in America.

Old people are annoying and then you become Old School.

Just when you think you have it all figured out, you’re wrong again.

Some are usually right, some are usually wrong and some we can't decide.

Got an elbow? Got an opinion? Everyone’s an ####.

Sports are a walking cliché.

Barbaro proved that folks love animals way more than I thought.

I never knew so many fans hated the Phoenix Suns and Steve Nash.

A lady who knows sports is instantly prettier due to the personality principle. 

I still can’t figure out whether quality or quantity wins.

Everybody tells us to go all out, but if you try too hard nobody likes you.

Defensive people can come across as very aggressive sometimes.

We’re all haters at one point or another.

Mean people really do suck but they can’t help themselves.

A lot of open-minded people sure are intolerant about certain things.

There’s your trash, my trash and everyone’s trash.

Although, somewhere there’s a person who still thinks O.J. was innocent.

We all crave acceptance, just as long as it’s on our terms.

Every compliment feels good, but praise from some individuals means more.

We were all dumber before we started blogging.

At this rate I'll figure out how to post to the "other" category any day now.

 

 At one time or another I've been both these guys.

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1steelerfan1
Feb 9, 2007
6:46 AM
Funny stuff Rivjo. Hate to meet the person that thinks OJ was innocent. I try not to talk trash; just give an honest opinion. But, it might end up being a bunch of garbage. I guess that would make it trash...ha ha.

MustardMan
Feb 9, 2007
7:15 AM
Good stuff Rivjo!

I agree 100% with the all out statement, you have to know where to draw the line between competitive and zealous!

I had the "other" problem too. Here's what I do. I type it and hit the "enter" key as fast as I can before Othella Harrington's name pop's up!

The_Dan
Feb 9, 2007
7:17 AM
Good read. A lot of truth to these comments. Cheers Rivjo.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
7:21 AM
Steeler fan---I met him. He was crazy. I think he was related to the boxer who threw the hatchet in the woods the other day.

Last edited by rivjo on February 9th at 7:26 AM.

1steelerfan1
Feb 9, 2007
7:22 AM
Was his name Kato?

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
7:23 AM
Mustard--Ain't that the truth. After awhile we either just give in or snap and tell them to leave us alone.

I never knew so many athletes names had Os in them.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
7:25 AM
Dan--Could you PLEASE use some of your radio clout and tell the weather man to stop sending that Canadian breeze down our way. PLEASE.

The bloggers out in Socal and down in Florida have no idea how bad it is.

Enjoy the weekend.

Last edited by rivjo on February 9th at 7:40 AM.

nyace29
Feb 9, 2007
7:26 AM
haha

your one of THE best on here man


keep up the good work

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
7:37 AM
Hey ace. Thanks for the props. Trying to knock em' out like Miguel Cotto.

sportthink
Feb 9, 2007
7:39 AM
Very accurate sentiments. I have to do a little self evaluation on some of these. Thanks.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
7:42 AM
sportthink--As always, just thinking about sports. (and life) I think we all have to do some self-evaluation. I'm as bad as they come.

Thanks right back at ya.

sportthink
Feb 9, 2007
7:45 AM
Riv- If you would, please read my comment on "gather around guys" by DustyOutlaw. I'd like your opinion on if that is an inappropriate way to voice my frustration with the topic of conversation on that post.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
8:05 AM
sportthink--I don't know whether appropriate or inappropriate is the right word in this case.

You didn't resort to name calling which I don't think is ever good. I did that once and I felt awful about it and went back and apologized.

Your comment was "passionate" for lack of a better word in expressing your opinion. I took your words to mean that you felt Dusty was in bad taste and wrong for making a bigger deal out of the death of a horse than a human. It was a verbally "strong" comment but I don't know I would say it was "bad".

Besides, Dusty's a grown man. He'll kick it right back at you. I wouldn't think about this too much. You guys didn't see eye to eye and that's all.

I do understand though. You sound like me. I just want to the the right thing myself and stick to my own prescribed standards of behavior.

Hope that helped.

sportthink
Feb 9, 2007
8:49 AM
I guess if I worded it more like your third paragraph then I'd have been less questioning of my method of disapproval. Thanks for the help, you're a good man.

burger21
Feb 9, 2007
10:14 AM
TRUTH!!!

We're talking about Truth...?

Truth, man...we're talking about truth.

Not lies...not lies...we're talking 'bout TRUTH!


(Of course...you could probably appreciate this better if you could see me here in my AI jersey, cornrows, and Benz necklace - hat to side - in my best Iverson voice.)

You know I, more than anyone, have much love for a good dose of truth...just don't get too good at this or I'll be out of a job!

Nooch
Feb 9, 2007
10:22 AM
Rivjo,

Good stuff.

A lot of food for thought here. I think the only one I disagree with is the one about mean people. I not only think they can help it, but I think they are wired in such a way as to really enjoy stepping on people.

Good job. Keep up the good work.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
10:33 AM
Burger--Thanks alot man. You are too funny. I totally wrote this without you in mind and then when I posted it I thought to myself, "That's rather Burger like".

Thanks for not feeling like I was moving in on your turf.

I'm just passing through your neighborhood of truth. I'm one and done buddy.

I definitely don't want you to have to "keep it real" with me.

Have a great weekend.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
10:37 AM
Nooch--Thanks for the reading and the comment on mean people. You're absolutely right. (At least in probably 95% of the cases.)

However if they are "wired" in a way that enjoys hurting people maybe they can't help it.

Dang, thinking too hard again.







Sportthink--Thanks again. I'd like to think I am. I try and sometimes being a good man is hard work.
We all know how that goes.


Last edited by rivjo on February 9th at 12:42 PM.

sleeplessinseattle
Feb 9, 2007
10:51 AM
Riv: Speaking as an old, annoying Old School person---right on!

undecided
Feb 9, 2007
11:01 AM
Great post Rivjo. A lot of good stuff there. It caused me to stop and look at myself some. Keep the great posts coming. O.J. innocent? Not hardly, but someone out there might think so. Not me! Great to hear from you steelfan. I live in the Northeast and I'm tired of freezing.

burger21
Feb 9, 2007
11:15 AM
You can go here all you want brother...there is no patent on the Truth and this world needs all it can get!

Keep on keepin' it real mi amigo.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
12:19 PM
sleepless-The older we get, the more the past makes sense---when we can remember it.

Thanks for reading.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
12:23 PM
undecided--Glad you decided to take the time and stop by my blog. Even happier to make people think. I was looking at myself some too as I wrote it.

Hey we're all messed up sometimes, and some more than others. We need to check ourselves before we wreck ourselves on occasion.

And I'm from the northeast too. This penguin field day weather is for the birds.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
12:29 PM
burger--The only problem is half the time I'm a pathological liar and the other half I'm full of ####.

I hate telling the truth. Hosing people is way more fun.

Just funning of course. I was raised Catholic and the whole Catholic guilt thing has never left. Lies make me uncomfortable.

Marty Walker
Feb 9, 2007
12:37 PM
rivjo, you are a serious funny man. Some of your thoughts is like you are talking about me. No vanity here. "If everybody tells you to go all out,
if you do nobody likes you. Case in point in my new blog that's up today. 75 - 80 comments about my views on ####s and religion and so forth.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
1:44 PM
Marty--Thanks for reading. Appreciate the praise.

As for it felt like "I was talking about you", then I reached my goal. I'd like to think I was talking about all of us.

edclinchsaint
Feb 9, 2007
2:16 PM
Nice.

Keep it rivvin...

lisa4usc
Feb 9, 2007
2:27 PM
Dang riv..this is top notch. Love it. I am printing this out and putting it on the fridge...a true honor...ask my kids! (they will be jealous, but they will get over it...there's only so many heart doilies made from school that I can stomach on the fridge)

tophatal
Feb 9, 2007
2:37 PM
rivjo ...... A nice and succinct piece ! Now you're making me too embarrassed to offer any more posts within the forum. Boy am I ashamed of myself or what ? I haven't felt this way since the first time I saw my gilrfriend naked. No that's a lie , I should say I haven't felt this way since I caught my block and tackle in my zipper. ! Now that did hurt and was funny at the time because I'd just finished having sex with the girlfriend in the back of her passenger van.
As is your story !
Cumbersome,awkward and really painful at the time as we'd stopped by the roadside driving down from Orlando to Key West. What is it with a female that they sometimes choose the most inappropriate moment to want to get intimate ? I know we guys are meant to 'hound dogs' but the ladies too can snap back and be just as bad ! If not worse ? Have you ever overheard a female talking with her friends about when she's had sex ? It's enough to make a grow man either cry or blush ! That's why I tend to keep quiet when her friends are about as I don't want to a part of their conversation !

tophatal......

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
3:11 PM
ed--Keep it rivvin...I love it. Thanks for that. It's catchy and it made my day.

You do the same clinch.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
3:17 PM
Lisa- Hello pretty lady. You sure know sports so your attractive level goes straight to the roof!


I am VERY honored that something I wrote will make it to the side of someone's refridgerator. I feel like it's my first published piece.

Having kids of my own it's getting increasingly harder to find a spot on my fridge. If yours is cluttered too, the spot right in front of the freezer should be cleared immediately.

I'm going to have to tell my wife about this one. That's how flattered you've truly made me. Thanks a ton.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
3:25 PM
tophat--Hey dude...you can make a million blog names but you'll always be tophatal to me! Now that I got that off my chest thanks for the visit.

I LOVE talking to the ladies talk about sex. I always tell my wife she better say I'm good cause that makes her friends think I'm cuter. Well maybe not.

Anyway, I've seen enough of your posts to know what you have on the brain. If you ever stopped some guys would be real disappointed.

By the way. Don't forget Sugar Shane Mosely is fighting tomorrow, once again at 147lbs. He's going against Luis Collazo if I am correct. I like Mosely. He's got skills. I think he could present problems for Mayweather Jr., if Floyd gets by De La Hoya as I believe he will.

MeanDovine
Feb 9, 2007
3:45 PM
Riv., nice purge.

As for getting a post into the "Other" category. Once you have the cursor blinking in the "Add Catergories" box, move it over to the add button so that once you're finished typing the word, "Other" you can simply click add. If you move the cursor for any reason, it will think you're looking for another category and begin changing the word "other" to another category.

I hope this helps, bro.

Last edited by MeanDovine on February 9th at 4:15 PM.

The_Dan
Feb 9, 2007
4:06 PM
Hahaha I'll see what I can do Riv. All I can say is gather around the fireplace and warm up. Cheers.

ricko
Feb 9, 2007
4:15 PM
All excellent statements, riv. Though it's hard to have a favorite, I think I like the one about going all out the best. Sooo true. Great job.

Nostradomus
Feb 9, 2007
4:37 PM
rivjo

Excellent comments. Couldn't agree more. I do believe that there is good in everybody. Some people you just have to dig a little deeper to find it.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
6:08 PM
Mean--That's a good word for it. It seems people aren't as nice, respectful whatever you want to call it to each other sometimes. I guess I was trying to put things back in a proper perspective for a second. We all can be messed up and can certainly do a better job.

As for the "other" category thing, it's been so long since I put anything down there I didn't think to type the whole word in it in. I've gotten spoiled as any category I want just pops right up. Thanks for the reminder.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
6:17 PM
Dan--Yeah, and take some shots of whiskey too. Especially since I don't have a fireplace. I can lay down next to the heater vents I guess.



ricko---Glad you liked that one about trying too hard. As you see I'm still protecting the Suns too. I still don't get the hating. Thanks for reading.



Nostradomus---I love you man...nostradomus that is! I always watch those specials about him on the history channel. Very interesting stuff. You gotta get yourself an avatar of him. That would be hot.

I also believe that there is good in everybody. Well almost everyone. Some people like Charles Manson must have been as close to pure evil as possible. I tend to think that mean people are just deeply unhappy. Someone/something hurt them to their core. Fix the pain and then "niceness" can live again.

lisa4usc
Feb 9, 2007
6:19 PM
wow riv...thanks for the kind words as well...and your blog is above the ice maker on the fridge.....hubby loved it too. Hope that doesn't freak u out being on someone's fridge! Thanks again!

Siddhartha
Feb 9, 2007
6:44 PM
Another great job on the blog. I hae to admit that I have been some of these people at some point. Damn funny!

Nostradomus
Feb 9, 2007
7:09 PM
Thanks for the comments rivjo, and I will go look for an avatar. By the way, I just posted what I think is a pretty good blog, check it out.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
7:37 PM
Lisa---Are you kidding me. The BOTD queen just put something I wrote in her kitchen and her NFL husband liked it too. That's like winning a Newbery award for bloggers.

I'm being silly of course here but in a sincere way. And no it doesn't freak me out at all. If anything it's very cool.

Keep us frozen northeasterners in your thoughts as you walk around in t-shirts.

cuziffer
Feb 9, 2007
7:38 PM
awesome work!

by the way, i think you're a hater of something....i'm just not sure what yet. but as soon as i figure it out, i'll unleash the dogs!

1steelerfan1
Feb 9, 2007
7:39 PM
There is NASCAR fantasy on Fox Rivjo. Just go to the fantasy page.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
7:40 PM
sidd--I think we all have. It's very humbling when we reflect and think of all the mistakes we have made. It's those things that hopefully make us better people. It's also a great way to laugh at ourselves and remember that we're all idiots sometimes.

Countdown to Green!

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
7:43 PM
nostradomus--consider it done. I was checking out some of your earlier posts just a little while ago. The stuff looks good.




rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
7:48 PM
cuz---You got me pegged. I absolutely hate anything and everything to do with the state of Wisconsin. Talk about a totally poser state.

Just kidding dude. I actually kinda like the state. Bucks, Badgers, Packers and Brewers are all good to me. I mean how could you not like a baseball team named after beer or a football team named after meat? We are men after all and we need beer and steak. Those team names are wonderful.

As for hating, I do sometimes. It's just so random I can't always place it myself. Although I hate the athletes who tortured my favorite teams.

Thanks for the visit.

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
7:50 PM
steeler--A blogger name stork or something like that is doing a league for bloggers. I just let him know that I would be interested in playing. The blog should still be up down in the Nascar section if you're interested.

Dudski started one last year. We started with like 30+ people and by the end only 10 or so stuck with it. Even so it was fun.

Last edited by rivjo on February 9th at 7:52 PM.

ShooterB
Feb 9, 2007
8:05 PM
Nice job, drummer boy.

When you're right...you're wrong, but you're also right. Or something like that...

rivjo
Feb 9, 2007
8:50 PM
Shooter---And when I'm being nice I'm really being mean, but only on Mondays when I forgot to eat my plain Cheerios with extra wheat germ for breakfast.

Oh, and by the way I'm never wrong unless I make a mistake.

Everyone needs therapy. My shrink uncle told me so.

Take it easy Shooter.

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