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SOMETHING MOST MEN DON'T WANT TO DISCUSS
Mar 21, 2008 | 8:16PM | report this

This is some thing I have been wanting to get off my chest recently. It has nothing to do with sports but it might save your life. I am definitely serious on this matter.  

Some of what I am going to discuss is a bit graphic for this site so this is not for the weak at heart but I was lucky.

As men progress into the 40s in most cases they will experience a higher Blood PSA score. Usually it means your prostate gland has enlarged which usually happens as you age and most cases it can be treated with medications. I hope you know what that gland does. If not, ask your Doctor.

My first experience was 8 years ago on a routine exam by the family doctor. PSA score was 4.9 and a slight enlargement. No real concerns at the time by me as I experienced no problems so I just passed it off.  I took many vitamins, herbal supplements, and saw palmetto so I wasn't worried.

Considering I avoid the Doctors like the plague, I didn't have another exam for 4 years. Another exam revealed PSA score still at 4.9 but the prostate had enlarged some more. No tumors or irregularities were found so I just passed it off again and continued t use my vitamins and supplements..

November2006 all hell broke loose. I was on a trail hike in Florida in a wild life preserve. That evening I had to use the bath room and passed an immense amount of blood and several clots. Had not experienced any difficulties before that. It did clear up and had no more difficulty but I  still failed to have it checked. About this time I started to have to urinate more frequently like the guys in the prostate commercials. Didn't think much of it though. ( age thing I thought).

Jan 2007 I started to have problems and severe burning when urinating followed by another bout of heavy bleeding and clots when urinating.  Tht cleared up again on its own but the burning continued for two months before I went to the family Doctor. PSA score was 4.3 ( which was a drop) but test revealed a severe Urinary track infection. Got a prescription of 500MG of Cipro for two weeks and it knocked it out we thought. Things seemed ok for a few months and wham! It was back. Went back to the family Doctor and got another test and I had the infection back. This time intermittently I was passing blood when I was physically active or took long walks. Another feeling started to pop up like I had something big in my groin or pressure that felt uncomfortable.

The dreaded rectal exam by the family Doctor this time revealed some thing was terribly wrong. She didn't say other than my prostate was entirely too large but made an appointment right then for me to see a Urologist knowing I would not make the appointment my self. 

Those Drs. a female and a male did the dreaded rectal exam and blood test. Yep I had a severe urinary tract infection again. This time I got the works. A cat scan ( try drinking a gallon of water and holding it while doing a cat scan) Hell hath no fury like an over full bladder.

The next week I had a complete biopsy test where you have to lay on a table while they used this zap gun up your you know where and get tissue samples of your prostate gland. Not a pleasant experience at all.

The next week results are back and it is not pretty. The Drs. asked me this did not come on recently. I said I had never experienced any problems till Jan 2007. Although I did not experience any problems before, this malady was growing all along for over the last few years I guess.

Results of the test were: Severe infection in the prostate with calcification of the tissue, a tumor, attached cyst, and large stones in the bladder. The prostate was the size of an orange considering it should be the size of a walnut. Fortunately no cancer was found in the tissue samples.

Prognossis:  A complete removal of the prostate was in order. Further test of the removed tissue will be needed to eliminate the possibility of cancer in other areas of the prostate. A lazer removal of the stones in the bladder was in order. In short, I was facing a radical surgery with still the possibility of cancer.

What I am trying to convey here to all the guys is get those exams and don't put it off. This could have turned out a lot worse than it did. Had I listened a few years back to my Doctors, I might not would have gone through such a radical surgery now.

Yes I was lucky in a sense but possibly prostate shrinking medications may have saved me going though this procedure. Don't put it off.

Post surgery recouperation:

No cancer was noted in tissue sample taken during surgery and was able to save the nerves so I should get all my regular functions back. Yes making whoopie with the wife is also possible later.

5 days in the hospital on morphine with a painful cather tube. One week at home with that danged painfull cather tube. Inability to sit with out severe pain for 3 weeks. Only comfort was pain pills and laying only. Walking short times was ok but got tired easily. Bought a whoopie cushion to get back into sitting but that was a joke.

The last few days have allowed me to sit for longer periods of time with a pillow and the pain is managable now. I should be back up to my normal activities in another 3 to 4 weeks.

Again all you older guys get checked out. This happens in 1 in 5 men in the USA. Many are prostate cancer diagnosed. They got mine in time. I would not wish this on my worst enemies.

 

  

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slshusker
Mar 21, 2008
8:59 PM
Holy #### Batman. That's an eye opener.
I had my first digital exam @ 30. I wasn't going to let it sneak up on me.

degraff
Mar 21, 2008
9:00 PM
photogr's, thats scary. I wish the best for you. Because of a life long condition I see the DR. every 3 months so they do a pretty good job on me. But you are absolutly right. I lost my father to prostrate cancer. Its extremly important for guys to get the finger exam often. Find a female Dr. and it won't be so bad. The ladies have to get their selve check often too. Good post and I'll be thinking about you. Get well buddy.

jon_464
Mar 21, 2008
9:21 PM
photogr, glad you're feeling better.

Hanahan
Mar 21, 2008
9:29 PM
Photo, you are one brave SOB. Thanks for having the guts to write this and put it out in public. I pratically have to be dying to go to the Dr, but you certainly have got me motivated to go now. We're all pulling for you, and we know you'll be back swinging from those vines in no time.

On a lighter note...husker, you know you started early because you like it.

degraff
Mar 21, 2008
9:42 PM
Ahhh husker has a female Dr. too.

photogr
Mar 21, 2008
10:07 PM
Sishusker:

A wise decision. Keep it up yearly as you hit 40.

photogr
Mar 21, 2008
10:13 PM
Degraff:

My family Dr. is female so I had no issues with the Urologist.I got more info from her than I would a male Dr. I think. She made sure I completely understood what I was facing.

From what I researched on this if there is a family history, you should definitely get checked regularly.

photogr
Mar 21, 2008
10:17 PM
Jon:

Thanks. I am definitely glad I am doing better. Seems this week every day is a little better than the last so I should be up to speed shortly.

photogr
Mar 21, 2008
10:24 PM
Hanahan:

I know what you mean about Sishusker.

If this post gets to others that put these kind of things off to change their mind, I feel it was worth it to go public.

I know of two people in my neighborhood that do have prostate cancer and that was very sobering to see what they have to go through. Hopefully with treatments, they will recover. One is only 55.

HalfBaked
Mar 22, 2008
3:47 AM
Photogr, I lost both my dad and my grandfather to prostate cancer and my father made me promise to keep up with both the digital exam and the PSA before he died.

Hang in there and try to keep a good attitude as you recover, you have a lot of people pulling for you....

fuzzboss
Mar 22, 2008
4:30 AM
Photo: Lord bless you my man. You will have a full recovery. I have mine checked regularly, so far so good. At 65 I am fortunate, indeed, blessed. Know the signs all to well. We guys are weird, must be a man thing. Die of prostate cancer and colon cancer cause it is not "manly" to have someone poke things up your butt. Take care my friend. Fuzz

HawgRider
Mar 22, 2008
5:21 AM
Photogr- Extremely painful doesn't begin to describe what you've been through. Been there, done that. Sure glad it wasn't cancerous.

Being able to have sex is good, but having a urine flow that's clear, steady and strong is everything. Hope you're feeling much better real soon.

noahspop2001
Mar 22, 2008
6:17 AM
As always like grandma said, visit the doc. Even when you feel good get that checkup. Glad they got you cleaned up..Would hate to miss your blogs. I also think maybe this if only for one person will be an eye opener. Thanks for sharing in your pain..

smallblockcamaro
Mar 22, 2008
8:03 AM
I ended up with prostate cancer too. They did the radiation, knocked out the cancer, and everything worked. Six years later it was back. A trip to Houston-MD Anderson-for a radical prostectomy. Now, cancer free again but nothing works. Pills are worthless, injections hurt, pumps are a pain....

JOKERSWILD
Mar 22, 2008
8:49 AM
Photgr" Thanks for bringing up this topic not enough people know the real danger- im in my fortys the new 30 by the way and ive been checked and will stay on top of it a least the test isn't as bad as a colonostomy...take care of yourself ...JW

chatty42
Mar 22, 2008
9:03 AM
Okay Guys, as a female, I'm begging all of you to get checked...we really do like having you guys around. Thanks photogr for not being afraid to discuss this...to lay it on the line and get these guys talking. You did great!

slshusker
Mar 22, 2008
9:07 AM
Hanahan, your mother is my Physicians Assistant.

Prostate cancer hit my dad. That's why I'm tested.

Last edited by slshusker on March 22nd at 9:08 AM.

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
9:43 AM
Halfbaked:

Thanks. All the more reason to get those checkups. In my family tree none of the males ever experienced Prostate Cancer. Just proves it can hit any one.

Last edited by photogr on March 22nd at 9:51 AM.

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
9:50 AM
Fuzzboss:

Exactly the thought about the exams in my situation. No longer will I ever have those thoughts again. Come exam time I am dropping my pants.

Although I consider my self extreemly lucky on this, I have to give credit to my faith and trust in God.

Last edited by photogr on March 22nd at 10:04 AM.

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
10:02 AM
Hawg:

You know what I am talking about. If I hadn't had this done, I might have developed Cancer for sure from what I was told. Had I listened to my family Dr. years ago I definitely would have been spared such a radical surgery.

I may have to take Viagra in the future but it is too early to tell yet. The nerves were spared to the Prostate though.

Yes the urine flow is great and clear for the first time in a year. Other than a slight irritation from the cather being in for two weeks, it is almost pain free.

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
10:12 AM
Noahspop:

The main reason I posted this to get the message out. As we get older, the mechanics of our body do fail from time to time. Much like an engine in a car.

If we fail to get the engine serviced on a regular basis, we leave the engine open for catastropic terminal failure as it ages.

I being the one that gets my cars serviced and fixed religiously, makes you wonder where my head is when it comes to my body check ups.

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
10:23 AM
Smallblock:

I am so sorry you had to go through that twice. From what you say, that included the nerves too in the surgery?

My Drs. also considered removing the nerves but decided to spare them. It does mean I have the possibility of getting cancer later too but will have to stay on a regular check up schedule to help prevent that possibility.

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
10:30 AM
Jokers:

Will do. I am just thankful I have a few more years to enjoy living.

For some reason, I did not realize before how important living was and now feel compelled to make the most of each day I have and live it to the fullest.

Actually, before the test and surgery, I really felt I was going to get the dreaded " your condition is terminal" sentence.

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
10:36 AM
Chatty42:

Thanks. I was really reluctant to post this but had something compelling me to do it.

As I have seen here this condition is quite wide spread and needs to be addressed for all concerned.

If it only saves one person from having to experience this condition, then it was worth it.

24x2
Mar 22, 2008
11:22 AM
photogr....I have always called you,"The Big Hairy One." Now I must add "Brave!" I watched my Uncle die though they could have saved him. He was afraid of losing his sexual abilities. He died in great pain and suffering. What a waste of a wonderful man.

That is why God, gave us memories! God Bless.

edclinch
Mar 22, 2008
12:08 PM
Nicely done. Glad that you lived to tell about it.

Keep on blogging.

I am 38 and in the National Guard so I guess I get checked regularly; I hope I can avoid these problems in time.

Forensic2
Mar 22, 2008
12:40 PM
It takes a brave hairy guy to wake us up sometimes. I have not had a full going over for 7 years now. Blood yes. cholestral has been super, so I use that as a good sign that everything else is ok. Like Hanahan my bones have to be sticking out for me to say, Thats not right, I better go.

Cheers and its good your getting better. Godbless.

Last edited by Forensic2 on March 22nd at 5:00 PM.

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
1:26 PM
24x2:

I am sorry for your loss.

If I had a choice if this was worse, I would definitely pick life over sex.

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
1:31 PM
Ed:

Early detection is always the best defense. You are still young so you do have time. However if you experience problems, Don't wait to have it checked. Usually the PSA score is a good way to stay on top of the condition but not the ultimate defense.

Dave_in_Indy
Mar 22, 2008
1:35 PM
I had a great personal physician over a decade ago who made me recognize the importance of the rectal exam. I am religious about seeing my physician yearly - and had my colonoscopy last fall (the prize for hitting 50).

Good warning/reminder to us all, thanks.

And sorry you have gone through so much over the past couple of weeks. The 500mg of Cipro alone had to be VERY uncomfortable - that stuff eats your insides out after just a couple of days.

Now if I could just eat my vegetables ...

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
1:35 PM
Forensic:

I have felt that way too in the past. Not any more.
BTW. You got fox mail.

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
2:15 PM
Dave:

It is so good to hear that you have the exam done yearly. Better to spend a couple bucks for a preventative exam than have to face a possible life threatening condition that cost a bundle.

Yes the Cipro scared the heck out of me when I took it based on their reactions warning but it did reduce the infections and pain till the Urology Drs. found the real problem. Had 3 bouts of infections over a year so it was time to get to the root of the condition fast.

Last edited by photogr on March 22nd at 2:17 PM.

volfan69
Mar 22, 2008
2:16 PM
I'm proud of you! This is a public service announcement to the guys on here, but it is also for all of us gals. We have to keep on our guys about their health. Thanks, friend, for what you are doing here. Much love and respect to you. BTW, get those hearts checked also. Be smart and live smart.

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
2:23 PM
Volfan:

Definitely good advice on the hearts too. Mine seems fine for now based on the hospital test, but I do take all the vitamins, aspirins and herbal supplements so the Drs. says keep it up.

Lisa H
Mar 22, 2008
3:25 PM
Larry-

By you posting this you may have saved a life. God Bless you for doing that. I tell all the men in my family to get checked. I hope you make a complete recovery, and am thankful no cancer was found. Larry, you got lucky. Life is short.

Stay on top of it, and continue to remind men about this. (Ya'll make such lousy patients, someone needs to step up to the plate!!!)

Hugs!

Lise

FOXSports_Admin
Mar 22, 2008
5:20 PM
Photogr, you have our best wishes for recovery. Don't worry about this not being a "sports thread." Because if people get checked, maybe they'll be around longer to enjoy sports. See, now it's a sports thread. :)

I just found out today that my best childhood buddy has prostate cancer. Apparently, they've caught it early enough for treatment, but still. It stinks, bigtime. Getting checked regularly is the best way.

Last edited by FOXSports_Admin on March 22nd at 5:23 PM.

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
8:50 PM
Fox Sports Admin:

Thank you for your support. I did have reservations about this but it was a story that had to be told to others. I too have known of neighbors that had this condition but thought it could not happen to me.

100% of the time this slow growing but silent cancer or infection can be cured if caught early enough. Regular exams bi yearly is the best preventative medicine. I just waited too long and had to go through the major surgery.

I know it prevented me from going to a few races last year due to the symptoms experienced but I was negligent in waiting.

Yes it will be a bummer during recovery but I will have the luxury of going to the races again very soon with out any worries.

Again thank you for allowing me to get this message out.There are a lot of bloggers here that I may never meet but still they are friends and I care about them.

photogr
Mar 22, 2008
8:59 PM
Lisa:

I am honored you chimed in. I do hope I can make a difference in others health if only one.

We deffinitely do not need to loose any one else on this site to cancer of any kind. I have been granted a second chance in life and I will use it wisely.

This is going to be one Eater I am going to definitely enjoy and give thanks.
Happy Easter to all.

Hugs to you too.

Last edited by photogr on March 22nd at 10:29 PM.

Gerrel
Mar 22, 2008
10:31 PM
Photo - Thanks for sharing such an important message with all the Fox bloggers...male and female. My hubby is not very good about going to the doctor. As you have said, waiting or ignoring symptoms, may make the situation much worse down the road.

I'm glad you're on the road to recovery. Enjoy the Easter Holiday with your family!

photogr
Mar 23, 2008
8:48 AM
Thanks Gerrel. You have a Happy Easter too. Not a wise thing at all to wait or ignore the symptoms.

HotfootLori
Mar 23, 2008
8:08 PM
Happy Easter, and glad all is well with you. Best wishes for a continued speedy recovery.

photogr
Mar 23, 2008
9:22 PM
Thanks Hotfoot and Happy Easter to you. Yes I am getting there slowly but surely.

charrit
Mar 24, 2008
4:56 AM
Photogr,

Thanks for the good advice. I too am one who doesn't like to go to the doctor. If it had not been for my wife staying on me and scheduling a doctors appointment for me years ago I wouldn't be around today to be enjoying these blog sites.

Again thanks for telling your story and letting everyone know the importance of seeing their doctor regularly.

Men sometimes it is not a bad thing to listen to our wives. HA. HA.

photogr
Mar 24, 2008
12:43 PM
Charritt:

Yep. Sometimes it takes the wife to keep us healthy.

klvalus
Mar 25, 2008
8:15 AM
Photo - I must have missed this post somehow but am glad I found it. My dad had a scare right before my wedding but thankfully is ok and the meds worked. My hubby is a big baby about MD's so I gotta drag him in there asap! Thanks for being open and sharing for our benefit!

Hope your recovery continues to speed along...

photogr
Mar 25, 2008
3:38 PM
Klvalus:

Thanks. I am getting better daily. Have a couple issues that need to improve but the Drs. say it takes time and have to be careful for a few more weeks.

I am thinking I should be running the marathon now but they say get real.

I don't like to have to go to Drs. at all but this time it was worth it. I hope.

KYspeedwayfan
Mar 27, 2008
7:16 PM
Photog - thanks for posting this. I'm sure it wasn't easy to do, but whatever needs to be done to increase awareness is well worth it. My dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer a few years ago. After a series of intensive radiation treatments, he seems to be doing fine now. But still waiting to make it to that magic 5 year mark. I'm 37 and haven't been checked yet, but between dad and your post, I'm thinking better now than to wait. Thanks again and I'm glad to hear you're doing OK now. Best wishes in your continued recovery.

coolman007
Mar 27, 2008
7:31 PM
Photog - thanks for posting this. I will tell my friend check out this article,,, those are a bevy of biker chicks I met at a biker dating site called **** Lovebiker.com **

They said they are interested in it....

photogr
Mar 27, 2008
7:48 PM
Kyspeedwayfan:

Thanks for your input. Having a history of family members with Prostate Cancer certainly does raise the anty for the possibility for cancer.

Good that you will get checked at least annually. If caught early, it can easily be stopped either by medications, radiation, seeds, or surgery with a good life long remission.

In my case, I almost waited too long thus the radical surgery due to the extensive infection with turmors and cyst in my prostate ( 2+ years).

Believe me and your dad. You don't want to go through the worry and discomfort.

Take care.

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