The climate of America right now is such that on-air personalities in radio and television must tread ever so carefully when they are on the air. Offensive commentary will be dealt with harshly, leading to stiff penalties such as fines, suspensions, or even termination. Issues of race are at the top of the list of topics that are likely to cost a media personality their job. Knowing this, the topic is likely to be avoided altogether, if it were solely up to the broadcaster. If compelled (forced) to discuss issues of race because of public demand, the broadcaster will speak very carefully, making sure no word they utter can be construed by anyone as offensive. In so doing, the broadcaster will speak with no candor whatsoever, and their true feelings on the matter will be held in the silence of their heart. My question to the people who claim that they are crusaders for equality in America (to name them would be to publicize them, further serving their true motive.) is simply this;
How can we possibly improve race relations if we can't talk candidly about them?
Those who are calling for the firing of radio/television personality Don Imus are helping to continue, and further, the current political climate in America, a climate of fear. 'Say this, or we'll banish you'. 'Apoligize for that or we'll see that you never make another nickel in broadcasting'. The potential ramifications involved with speaking about race encourage the bottling up of thoughts and feelings. No problem ever got solved by the denial of its existance.
Of course, like most everyone else, I found Mr. Imus's comments regarding the Rutgers womens basketball team to be offensive. But, I submit to you, wouldn't the cause of race relations be better off if, instead of firing Don Imus, he became educated as to why his comments were so offensive? Why this comment was different than the thousands of fat jokes, anti-religion jokes, or anti-homosexual jokes he has made over the years. I believe that despite the repeated apoligies offered by Mr. Imus, he would still catogorize this comment as the same as all the others, the only difference being the fallout. If he were to be educated, though (which I'm certain he'd be open to, given his worldwide apology tour over the past few days), he could become an example for others in his industry.
If this incident opens up a healthy dialogue about race relations in America, it would be enormously positive for our future society at large. This said, a healthy dialogue will undoubtedly produce viewpoints that people on each side of the discussion are certain to find offensive. If we can cast our feelings aside, then perhaps we can achieve true progress. A problem rooted in hate and ignorance cannot be solved with hate and ignorance.
Sadly, this cannot happen in the current broadcast climate of America. For the moment, it's more likely to happen in a much more obscure venue such as this, where our words will fall on deaf ears out in the real world. Here's hoping that, someday, the climate will change.
Exactly what 'sensitivity" is it that I owe anyone? African-Americans have bull-shitted themselves for YEARS that they are somehow owed a living because of sometihng that ended 150 years ago. Of course there is still racism going on, but that doesn't mean it's EVERY white person. Isn't a Black that doesn't like white people a racist too?
I give what I get. I'm a white male, so I get automatically blamed for things I've never done. Consequently, I have little to no sympathy for Blacks. I have my own problems (kidney disease), and I don't recall the last time an African-American tried to do something about it. I'll deal with my problems, they can deal with theirs.
Totally agree. Too many people just don't care to understand the roots of a problem. It's just too easy to lump as many problems as possible all together and explain it away. If everybody took a little time to understand others better, we wouldn't have as many problems as we do now. We'd use more reason, and less emotion, in our conversations because we'd better understand the root of the problem. Much more would be solved. Nice post.
no, this is wrong. did you ever notice - and i'mma need you white guys to keep up - that only blacks and women EVER get insulted. or rather its always minorities. ny white friends know 101 black jokes, i dont know a single white joke. they know a billion different ways to insult a black man (####, ####, etc) but if i had to go toe to toe all i'd have is honkey and cracker. das it. white guys are even coming up with new insults like '####'. i dont understand whats so damned hard about respect. you notice Imus nevr insulted people for being white. he never made fun of jews... only blacks get the role. at a summer job i worked teletyping for a deaf call center.. guess what, even deaf people have a whole lot to say about blacks and mexicans. but guess what? i been black 30 years and i've never had a conversation about white people as a people. my parents went thru real racism - and it wasnt 150 years ago. And they didnt allow curse words like that in the house. they werent angels, they cursed, but racist epithets were unacceptable. i dont have time educate every white man how NOT to be a ####. its simple. call me black or african america or simple Curtis. i'll call you white caucassian or by your God given name. there. class dismissed.
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and dont tell me i'm wrong. we're only 12% of the population. i dont have any choice bt to be around whites. and many of them are my friends. i married a nice white girl - and my parents loved her. my brother is half white, just like my son. but can you guess how my girl's family treated me? i bet you can. hell, i was just in durham helping a female buddy move. her parents- and her brother how's my age - use the #### to describe blacks. we cant even get black outta them. she spent the entire afternoon worried that he dad would slip and call me #### and then i'd have to beat his old ####. but they treated me well. thats the danger. lets generalize for second: when a black person doesnt like you, that #### is obvious to anyone who cares to look. when white people think '####' they say '[insert first name]'. its surreptitious. therein lies the danger. how can i have white friends when i never know if theyre really friends?
and this issue is more than race. Imus intended to say what he said - and he fully intended to be protected. like Rush Limbaugh. he expected his peeps to have his back. and ya'll do. if a black man said something like this, i'd scream for his head. but thats just me.
Demon - You seem to be applying this to all white people. I've never uttered a racist remark to anyone in my life, ever. Racist white people may know a lot of black jokes. But, the rest of us don't even bother with stupid things like that. I can't follow every white person around and keep them in line. I can only manage what I say and do.
And, you're wrong about Imus. He has insulted others besides blacks. In fact, he's offended lots of people. This is nothing new with him. He's a jerk to lots of people.
Demon;
If you visit wfan. com, you will see a link to a bit Imus did this past Friday (two days AFTER his comment about the Rutgers women) in which his producer Bernard McGuirk impersonated Cardinal Edward Egan, the head of the New York Archdiocese, and one of the most important Catholic figures in America. As part of the bit, the "Cardinal" said some vile things, and used some highly questionable language. This bit took place on Good Friday, one of the Holiest days of the Catholic year. The idea that African-American women are, and have been, the only targets of Imus's insults over the years is absolutely ludicrous. And to your other point, I am not calling for you, personally, to carry out "the education" of Don Imus. My point is, this should be dealt with on a national level. There should be a high profile national conversation about where we are with regards to race relations in America, and where we need to go. Otherwise, we'll just end up spinning our wheels every month with a Mel Gibson, Michael Richards, Don Imus type being thrown to the wolves, with no progress being made as to the real issue.
Micslut;
Evidenced in your writing is some genuine anger with this subject. I don't know specifically what caused your anger, but I am sorry that you feel it. Your comment divides the country into "Us and Them". And I think that "they" is a very dangerous word when it comes to this subject. "We" all are different. We all have different thoughts, feelings, and opinions. I apoligize for my "sensitivity" remark in your blog, it is not my place to tell you how to express your thoughts.
JGrace, Thanks for the kind words.
By the way, I am supremely disappointed in all the bleeped out words on this page. I was hoping the discussion could proceed in a civil fashion.
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