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by: 14Falcons
Something Positive To Say
Jun 19, 2008 | 6:10PM | report this
When he fell out of the top 35 in the Sprint Cup standings in March, Jamie McMurray went to Martinsville Speedway in Virginia without a guaranteed spot but with a granite pillar of support.  Jim McMurray, 60, made a special trip to the track to ensure his son kept his head up and his car in the race.  It's a father-son formula that has been working for more than 20 years.

"I could have a horrible day, even when I made it to this level, and he would find something positive to say," say McMurray, 32. "My dad never pressured me. He always found a positive in the worst day."

McMurray started 2008 with five consecutive finishes outside the top 20.  However, he enjoyed his best weekend of the year at Martinsville.  McMurray started fifth and finished eighth, triggering a steady march upward in the standings.  With his dad in attendance at the LifeLock 400, McMurray placed 10th for the second time in three weeks and continued the turnaround.    He has climbed 15 spots in 10 races and ranks 21st entering Sunday's Toyota/Save Mart 350 at Infineon Raceway.

"We spent virtually every weekend together racing," says the elder McMurray, who is divorced.  "But in the last five years, we've probably spent more time together than we did before."

The two live 10 minutes apart in Mooresville, N.C. McMurray's dad keeps his Mondays and Tuesdays open for his son and frequent golfing partner but says he doesn't offer much advice.

"Jamie does his homework about anything he does," his dad says.  "If he asks, I say what I think would be best for him. But most of the time we think the same. He's a grown man and needs to make his own decisions."

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Gerrel
Jun 19, 2008
11:01 PM
It's always nice to hear how the driver's families support their career. Seems that the father's are some of their son's biggest cheerleaders.

noahspop2001
Jun 19, 2008
11:14 PM
Hey falcon, thanks for sharing this piece. It is awsome a father & son togetherness. I know the feeling. My son, if you watch the truck race and the Nationwide race. Will be flagging at Milwaukee next to the falgstand. I like Jim am a pround father. It is awsome seeing kids do what they love.

14Falcons
Jun 20, 2008
5:15 AM
Gerrel,

Thanks for appreciating the piece. I thought it was pretty neat.

14Falcons
Jun 20, 2008
5:15 AM
noah,

I'll be looking for you guys.

gonger93
Jun 20, 2008
5:46 AM
Good Article. It is always nice to hear about drivers having good relationships with their dads.

Last edited by gonger93 on June 20th at 5:47 AM.

14Falcons
Jun 20, 2008
6:15 AM
Thanks!

photogr
Jun 20, 2008
7:40 PM
Nice piece on the father son angle. I am sure Jamie needs all the support he can get.

photogr
Jun 20, 2008
9:29 PM
Hey pops:

Speed featured close ups several times of Noah doing his flagging. Thought it was nice to see Speed do that.

noahspop2001
Jun 22, 2008
10:45 PM
Photo thankyou for letting me know. We had a blast.

14Falcons
Jun 23, 2008
5:21 AM
Noah,

You have to contact SPEED and get the video of Noah. I missed the race. I was watching my wife and daughter in their play. But I would love to see the video. I bet he was so cute.

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